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SAN FRANCISCO

Thousands of same-sex couples tie the knot at City Hall

By LeiLani Dowell and Bill Hackwell
San Francisco

Feb. 17 update: Despite strong winds and rain, hundreds continued to line up to be married. The city has married 2,636 couples as of today. Two different courts today that heard right-wing challenges to the city issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples refused to issue injunctions to stop it.

On Feb. 12, when the City Hall of San Francisco opened its doors and started issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples, it opened something else as well: a window in history that let in the wind that will eventually bring full equality for all relationships, regardless of sexual orientation.

The first couple to be married were longtime lesbian activists Phyllis Lyon and Del Martin, who have been together for 51 years. The two women founded the first national lesbian organization, Daughters of Bilitis, in 1955.

Over the next five days, through the holiday weekend, nearly 2,500 couples from the lesbian, gay, bisexual and trans communities were married in civil ceremonies--in the City Hall rotunda for the entire world to see.

Long lines of couples accompanied by witnesses, friends and relatives wrapped around City Hall. Many waited in line overnight in rainy weather for the chance to be married in what can only be described as a historic act of mass civil disobedience.

Newly elected Mayor Gavin Newsom, not a liberal Democrat, has been under pressure from the LGBT communities and progressive supporters across the country. As a result, on Feb. 12 he directed city officials to begin issuing licenses to same-sex couples. Newsom ordered City Hall to stay open over the three-day holiday weekend.

More than 200 city workers volunteered their time so that as many people as possible could get married.

On Feb. 14, the mood in the long lines was jubilation. It was also lost on no one that this indeed was a moment in history, a step toward overcoming institutionalized discrimination against same-sex couples.

The process moved slowly but no one seemed to care as they packed inside the city assessor's office to take out the marriage licenses and pay the fees. After that each couples was led to the fourth-floor rotunda, where deputy commissioners and judges performed the ceremonies for free.

While the number of marriages being performed could have made the occasion seem like an assembly line, each ceremony was conducted with dignity and as much time was given to each couple as was needed.

As many as 85 percent of those being married were from San Francisco. Others came from as far away as South Africa. Many of those from out of town who did not have family and friends present left their cell phones on so that loved ones could listen in.

As each married couple left City Hall waving their marriage license, those waiting in line for their turn cheered wildly.

Meanwhile in Sacramento, the California capital, more than 1,000 converged from throughout the state for a rally in conjunction with events across the country to demand full marriage equality rights for all. Many of those present had been married in San Francisco the day before, and the event was a celebration as much as a protest.

Even as they gathered, the same-sex marriage ceremonies were still taking place simultaneously two hours away in San Francisco. And that lesbian-gay-bi-trans forces were springing into action across the country around the issue, buoyed by this recent development.

Many protesters also expressed their enthusiastic commitment to stand in solidarity with the people of Iraq at the March 20 demonstration in San Francisco, and signed petitions to "bring the troops home now."

San Francisco's defiance of the California law that defines marriage as between a man and a woman was immediately challenged in the state court by reactionary groups like the Proposition 22 Legal Defense and Education Fund and the euphemistically named for California Families." These forces say the marriage certificates of these 2,000 couples are not worth the paper they are written on.

They are wrong. Regardless of what happens in court Feb. 17, a new phase in the struggle for LGBT rights has opened up. There is no going back.

Keith Pavlik contributed to this article.

Reprinted from the Feb. 26, 2004, issue of Workers World newspaper

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